Posts by Narcissistic Supply

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If Watchtower was a country

by zound in

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friends

if the watchtower society was the leadership of a state or country, and jehovah's witnesses were the citizens of said state or country.

which do you think current or imaginary regime or country would that be likened too?.

Effect of family life (me, wife and young boy) if I am df / da and wife zealous jw

by Daniel1555 in

jw
friends

i have a question and hope to hear some experiences of you who went or are going through this situation:.

actually for several reasons (blood policy, disfellowshipping policy and some more) my conscience is telling me quite strongly, that i should not anymore be a part of that organization.. my wife and even elders know about my doubts (except blood policy).

however i continue to join the meetings actually just to please my wife and to be together with our baby boy.

Narcissistic Supply

Be A Man. Grow A Pair. Spend as much time with your boy as possible.

God Bless.

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The final chapter in the confusedandalone story...

by confusedandalone in

this morning i get a frantic call from my sister (who has been baptized 1 year and one month and never attends meetings anymore).

in tears she tells me that this morning my father picked her up in the car and told her that i was am apostate.

that i no longer loved jehovah and that i was going to be disfellowshipped.

Narcissistic Supply

Do something EVERY day to find joy in life. Be Strong! Have A Great Life!

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Are congregations shrinking?

by logical1 in

i haven't been to a meeting in 7 years but i have cruised through the parking lot of about 4 kh's now during peak meeting times and been surprised to see 20 or less cars in the parking lot.. it always seemed when i was younger that the parking lot was a lot more full..

Narcissistic Supply

Driving all the way to the KH is Passe. Why bother.

We Need New Yaughts!! Brother!!! New Yaughts!!!

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Are congregations shrinking?

by logical1 in

i haven't been to a meeting in 7 years but i have cruised through the parking lot of about 4 kh's now during peak meeting times and been surprised to see 20 or less cars in the parking lot.. it always seemed when i was younger that the parking lot was a lot more full..

Narcissistic Supply

They are attending online. No need to waste gas.

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Would You Shun Your Own Son or Daughter For A Million Dollars for the rest of your life??

by Narcissistic Supply in

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friends

simply for the money..

Narcissistic Supply

simply for the money.

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Does The Governing Body Believe Their Own Lies? Are They Deliberate Liars? Are They Using the Common Human Trait Of Self-Deception

by frankiespeakin in

when we awaken from the indoctrinated coma of the watchtower corporation and starts to see all the lies and half truths one naturally wonders: does the governing body really believe all the stuff that they have printed in their publication?

are they so indoctrinated that they too are victims of the falsehood that the watchtower prints?

and now with the grandeous claims that the governing body a lone are the faithful and discreet slave of god doing his will do they really beleive such grandeous bullshit?

Narcissistic Supply

They only lie when their lips are moving!

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If you're happy and THEY know it all HELL breaks loose!!!!!

by SophieG in

jw
friends

hi guys...is it me...i am beginning to wonder: is a happy ex-jw a target?

i have had a few run ins this week on fb with random jws trying to check me for things that have absolutely nothing to do with the org.

(please dont ask me why they have not un-friended me!

Narcissistic Supply

@darth frosty!

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Does The Governing Body Believe Their Own Lies? Are They Deliberate Liars? Are They Using the Common Human Trait Of Self-Deception

by frankiespeakin in

when we awaken from the indoctrinated coma of the watchtower corporation and starts to see all the lies and half truths one naturally wonders: does the governing body really believe all the stuff that they have printed in their publication?

are they so indoctrinated that they too are victims of the falsehood that the watchtower prints?

and now with the grandeous claims that the governing body a lone are the faithful and discreet slave of god doing his will do they really beleive such grandeous bullshit?

Narcissistic Supply

absolute power corrupts absolutely

John Dalberg-Acton

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You Found Out You're In A Cult Of Lies, What Are Your Options Do I Stay In Or Do I Leave?

by frankiespeakin in

that is a question only you can answer.

there is no right or wrong answers unless you are steeped in black and white thinking.. some choose to stay in for family reasons, some are so heated up over being decieved they can't give them another minute of time or labor.

meeting are a tedious and tremendous bore once you see the man behind the curtain(wizzard of oz).

Narcissistic Supply

The narcissistic suppliers will generally develop Stockholm syndrome over a period of time. In the narcissistic suppliers mind the control and narcissistic abuse becomes conditioned as a codependent.

They will rationalize all kinds of things even if the narcissistic abuse is not rational or fruitful to them. They may even rationalize that they deserve it if they do not have high self esteem themselves. A person with high self esteem is not going to put up with it. They are going to say no. That’s enough. We don’t have to keep reiinforcing the pathological space and we don’t have to keep giving the narcissist the ability to continue obtaining narcissisitic supply from the same sources. go find new sources of narcissistic supply becomes the battle cry. Go find new a new pathological space becomes the game.